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Cope Not Collapse: My Strategies for Surviving Midwinter This Year
I know I am not alone in finding both difficulty and comfort at the end of each year. The holidays bring us together, for better or...

Jillian
Dec 6, 20185 min read


Women's Illness, Medical Bias, and Self-Gaslighting
It's hard for me to admit, but for a very long time "not experiencing acute pain or illness" has been my definition of a good day. I...

Jillian
Jul 23, 20184 min read


Loving Myself Enough to Push Myself; Untangling Gentleness from Self-Doubt
As the words "self-care" took hold in our national dialogue, they spoke to me. A lifetime of crippling perfectionism and the accompanying...

Jillian
Jul 13, 20185 min read


The Tiny Tools That Are Beating My Depression
Back at the end of November, I wrote this post, about the anxiety and self-doubt that was springing from the impending end of my time as...

Jillian
Mar 28, 20185 min read


Staring Into The Abyss: Impending End of My Tenure as a SAHM
" He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby becomes a monster. And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will...

Jillian
Nov 30, 20174 min read


Simple Meals + Snacks When You're Short on Spoons
I love to cook. I went to culinary school, and worked as a cook for years. Some days, that doesn't matter. If I am not careful about what...

Jillian
Oct 4, 20177 min read


Introducing the 5 Day Self Care Kickstart (Self Care 101)
KICKSTART: : to start (a motorcycle) by pushing down on a lever with your foot : to cause (something) to start quickly : to give new...

Jillian
Aug 9, 20172 min read


Stop and Be Real: The Escape Hatch on My Perfectionism
When people think of perfectionists, they think of straight A students terrified at the thought of an A-, control freak CEOs who have it...

Jillian
Jun 8, 20174 min read


Learning to Shut Down My Inner Critic and Keep Moving Through Depression
This is the third installment in my series on my struggles with depression. I’ve talked about using my capsule wardrobe as a coping tool,...

Jillian
May 1, 20174 min read


If You Have This Kind Of Depression, Chances Are You Don't Even Realize It
Yesterday was my first post in a short series on how I am attempting to manage my depression. One of the key steps I have taken is...

Jillian
Apr 29, 20174 min read


How My Capsule Wardrobe Helps Me Manage My Depression
A little over two months ago, my son started sleeping mostly through the night. A month later, I realized that despite getting regular...

Jillian
Apr 27, 20174 min read
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